ICEBERG Theory

The Iceberg Theory

The Iceberg Theory reminds us that what we see in other's (harmful) behaviors, reactions, choices is only the small tip (10% - 20%) above the surface, while the much larger (80% - 90%) story lives beneath.

This is the iceberg graphic I train from, it reframes harm not as isolated behavior of an "individual", but as the visible tip of much deeper contributing circumstances and factors.

Below the surface lives what we don’t often see: impact of home life, history, community, society; the "roots" that shape actions, choices, pain, and necessary healing.

This garment is a conversation starter, a lesson, and an invitation to look deeper instead of reacting faster.

So next time you think, "How could someone do, say, or be...." apply this theory. 

AND years ago when I was taught this theory, I instantly thought about ICEBERG, the fashion house.